{"id":7469,"date":"2022-01-07T17:35:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-07T16:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/smama.blog\/ok-ne-biti-ok\/"},"modified":"2026-07-04T11:06:45","modified_gmt":"2026-07-04T09:06:45","slug":"its-ok-not-to-be-ok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/smama.blog\/en\/its-ok-not-to-be-ok\/","title":{"rendered":"Is It Ok Not to Be Ok?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"95:1-95:206;6052-6257\">As someone who is mostly filled with positive energy and almost perpetual optimism, you might think I don&#8217;t have my &#8220;grey moments,&#8221; that there are no times when I&#8217;m out of sorts. Of course that isn&#8217;t true.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"97:1-97:246;6259-6504\">Everyone in this world has positive or negative emotions at any given moment. A lack of will, motivation, drive \u2013 sadness, simply the absence of any desire to move at all \u2013 these are all normal states that take turns alongside positive feelings.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"99:1-99:237;6506-6742\">It seems to me that our modern world is such that it barely leaves room to truly devote ourselves to the less happy moments with the same intensity we give to the happy ones. I don&#8217;t consider them any less relevant \u2013 quite the opposite!<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"101:1-101:175;6744-6918\">It&#8217;s ok to be sad for all kinds of reasons, although when I think about it a little more, there doesn&#8217;t always even need to be a valid reason. It&#8217;s ok not to know the reason.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"103:1-103:90;6920-7009\">It&#8217;s ok to say <em>no<\/em>. To say <em>no<\/em> to anything, whenever we want to, if that&#8217;s how we feel.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"105:1-105:89;7011-7099\">It&#8217;s ok to be brave and know what you don&#8217;t want \u2013 sometimes more than what you do want.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"107:1-107:19;7101-7119\">It&#8217;s ok to suffer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"109:1-109:77;7121-7197\">It&#8217;s ok to be lost \u2013 in the moment, in your own thoughts, in space, in time\u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"111:1-111:132;7199-7330\">It&#8217;s ok not to know what you want from your life, not to know what you want to be, where you want to go, or where you want to stop.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"113:1-113:21;7332-7352\">Of course that&#8217;s ok!<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/ana_tetana\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4159\" src=\"https:\/\/smama.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/wp-1642003749592..jpg\" alt=\"ok-je-ne-biti-ok\" width=\"681\" height=\"851\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold\" data-sourcepos=\"117:1-117:58;7444-7501\"><strong>A World That Leaves No Room for Difficult Emotions<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"119:1-119:563;7503-8065\">Every day we&#8217;re surrounded by factors pressuring us to be perfect, to always be happy and think positively. Society, the media, education \u2013 everything around us, consciously or not, puts so much pressure on us that a certain chapter of life <em>must<\/em> be finished by a certain point and a new one started. That you must decide <em>young<\/em> what you want to do with the rest of your life \u2013 when at that moment you fundamentally don&#8217;t even know what life itself is. That always irritated me, and the more I grow, the more clearly I see how little it has to do with reality.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"121:1-121:129;8067-8195\">How can someone impose on me what I want? How can someone tell me when to grow up and get serious? And what does that even mean?<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"123:1-123:4;8197-8200\">No!<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"ml-2 border-l-4 border-[hsl(var(--border-300)\/0.1)] pl-4 text-text-300\" data-sourcepos=\"125:1-125:108;8202-8309\">\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"125:3-125:108;8204-8309\">I want to do it myself! I want to be my own stumbling block and\/or the motivation that pushes me forward!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"127:1-127:255;8311-8565\">People on the outside would say: &#8220;Well, she&#8217;s sorted her life out \u2013 strong, knows what she wants, found her calling&#8221;\u2026 Absolutely not! Like many people, I&#8217;m someone who has been through a fair amount of the beautiful and the less beautiful in life so far.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold\" data-sourcepos=\"129:1-129:31;8567-8597\"><strong>Grab Hold of a Lifeline<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"131:1-131:460;8599-9058\">I often find myself wondering: <em>will I ever succeed, what have I achieved, how far have I come, is this really what I want to do, what I love, what makes me happy?<\/em> To be honest, the answer to these questions isn&#8217;t always a yes. However, I realize that even that answer does me good. It does me good in the sense that I <strong>slow down a little, devote myself to myself a little, think a little about what truly makes me happy in this moment \u2013 and what doesn&#8217;t.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"133:1-133:228;9060-9287\">Yes, that&#8217;s what pulls me out of all that daze. However static the moment may be, <em>I grab hold of a lifeline<\/em> that gets me moving in that moment and push forward, as best I can. Sometimes with more, sometimes with less success.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"135:1-135:242;9289-9530\">I&#8217;ve come to understand \u2013 after the millionth attempt and the frustrations that came with it \u2013 that <strong>nothing that is forced and done under pressure will come to fruition, especially when there is additional external pressure on top of it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"ml-2 border-l-4 border-[hsl(var(--border-300)\/0.1)] pl-4 text-text-300\" data-sourcepos=\"137:1-137:79;9532-9610\">\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"137:3-137:79;9534-9610\">It&#8217;s ok to know that we&#8217;re not machines and that we burn out in our own way.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"139:1-139:253;9612-9864\">It&#8217;s ok, on the other hand, not to justify ourselves to anyone for what doesn&#8217;t suit us in the moment, and to feel guilty for being that way. My dear people, think of this as a kind of mantra to repeat to yourself every morning when you get out of bed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"141:1-141:26;9866-9891\">And no, it&#8217;s not selfish.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"ml-2 border-l-4 border-[hsl(var(--border-300)\/0.1)] pl-4 text-text-300\" data-sourcepos=\"143:1-143:107;9893-9999\">\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"143:3-143:107;9895-9999\">It is not selfish in the slightest to be who we are and to search for ourselves until we find ourselves.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2 class=\"text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold\" data-sourcepos=\"145:1-145:28;10001-10028\"><strong>It&#8217;s Ok Not to Be Ok<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"147:1-147:203;10030-10232\"><strong>We learn every single day, and as long as we&#8217;re alive we will have obstacles \u2013 as well as beautiful moments. The secret lies in finding the balance between those two sides of the scales called life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"149:1-149:22;10234-10255\">It&#8217;s ok not to be ok!<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"151:1-151:365;10257-10621\">Not too much, not too little, sometimes, rarely \u2013 for the sake of questioning the things mentioned above and questioning ourselves. And when we&#8217;ve questioned and gathered ourselves, it&#8217;s ok to be who we are and to be happy \u2013 whatever that means for us! <strong>Because life is made up of the small things that matter to us and that colour our days, even the grey ones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"153:1-153:18;10623-10640\">Find your colour!<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal\" data-sourcepos=\"155:1-155:54;10642-10695\"><a class=\"underline underline underline-offset-2 decoration-1 decoration-current\/40 hover:decoration-current focus:decoration-current\" href=\"https:\/\/smama.blog\/en\/kategorija\/s-tetana\/\"><em>S-TetAna<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As someone who is mostly filled with positive energy and <a href=\"https:\/\/smama.blog\/en\/its-ok-not-to-be-ok\/\"> [&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":5167,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4067],"tags":[4152,2319,4151,2934,4122,3019],"class_list":["post-7469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-s-tetana","tag-emotional-wellbeing","tag-mental-health","tag-negative-emotions","tag-personal-growth","tag-s-tetana","tag-self-acceptance"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Is It Ok Not to Be Ok? - S-Mama Mima<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"It&#039;s ok not to be ok. 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