{"id":6494,"date":"2022-02-11T11:35:17","date_gmt":"2022-02-11T10:35:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/smama.blog\/razmazeno-dete\/"},"modified":"2026-10-20T10:08:42","modified_gmt":"2026-10-20T08:08:42","slug":"spoiled-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/smama.blog\/en\/spoiled-child\/","title":{"rendered":"My Child Is Spoiled!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yes, you read that right, my child is spoiled. Or at least that\u2019s how many people would describe the way we raise Sofka.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

If I got one euro for every comment like that, I\u2019d have enough to never pay for coffee in caf\u00e9s for a looong, long time.<\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t the first time I\u2019ve written here about other people\u2019s comments, the expectations of the people around us or sticking one\u2019s nose into other people\u2019s business<\/a>. And, judging by everything, it certainly won\u2019t be the last.<\/p>\n

To understand why \u201cspoiled\u201d keeps coming up as a label, I tried to break down the possible reasons, so I could make sense of the phenomenon.<\/p>\n

Only children are spoiled<\/h2>\n

People tend to automatically stick the \u201cspoiled\u201d label on children who have no brothers or sisters. Only children exist to be spoiled, because heaven forbid that a child with a brother or a sister could ever be spoiled.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s more, when people try to \u201cargue\u201d why a child \u201cshould have a brother or a sister\u201d, the first thing on the list is: so they won\u2019t be spoiled. Sofka has neither a brother nor a sister, so she meets the basic requirement for being spoiled.<\/p>\n

Spoiled children get everything they want<\/h2>\n

Sofka partly ticks this box too. When someone sees her room, they exclaim with delight: this is a dream room! And it is. Sofka has a lot of toys, that\u2019s true. She argues very convincingly why she needs something, and Marko and I don\u2019t mind buying her things (often because we want them, not because she asks for them). But yes, Sofia has (almost) everything she wants. Another box checked.<\/p>\n

Spoiled children are too emotional<\/h2>\n

I\u2019m afraid Sofka ticks this box too, no question about it. Yes, she loves cuddling with mom and dad. When she\u2019s sad, angry or happy, she\u2019s free to express her emotions in their full intensity, above all so she can learn to recognize them and cope with them.<\/p>\n

Because, imagine this, children don\u2019t come into the world with a pre-installed operating system of emotions and behavior. Parents are the programmers who not only have to install this software, but keep updating it for years.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

That\u2019s why tantrums happen in children between the ages of 3 and 6<\/a> (more on that in one of my next texts).<\/p>\n

Looks like we have to check this box too.<\/p>\n

Spoiled children are \u201cunruly\u201d and rude<\/h2>\n

Before I became a mom myself, I was far too quick to judge children, those I knew and those I didn\u2019t, often with the unspoken comment \u201cmy child will never be like that, or do this and that\u201d. But as it usually goes, life proves you wrong easily and very quickly. Yes, my child has cried in public more than once. Yes, my child is absolutely allowed to say \u201cno\u201d to me. And no, I don\u2019t think that makes her \u201cunruly\u201d or \u201cspoiled\u201d; I think it makes her independent and self-aware.<\/p>\n

Our culture has a deeply rooted belief that children are \u201crude\u201d and \u201cdo things on purpose\u201d. This assumes that children come into the world bad, and that it\u2019s our duty to turn them into good people (usually with physical or emotional punishment).<\/p>\n

But what are these good people like when they grow up? How many of us struggle with self-confidence? How many of us have trouble recognizing our emotions, let alone expressing them? How many of us suppress everything, for the sake of others or because it isn\u2019t socially acceptable? Too many, I\u2019d say.<\/p>\n

And yes, it\u2019s much easier to yell at a child and punish them than to really give them your attention and ask \u201cwhat\u2019s wrong?\u201d, \u201cwhy do you feel this way?\u201d.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"A<\/a><\/p>\n

As I said in the title, by all Balkan social standards, my child is spoiled.<\/p>\n

But we don\u2019t live in the Balkans. And that in itself means learning other, different ways of raising children, ways that don\u2019t involve an \u201ciron fist\u201d or the \u201cwho\u2019s the boss here\u201d principle.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t believe in spoiling, especially not in children. For me, there\u2019s no such thing.<\/p>\n

There are parents who devote themselves to their children and try to understand their feelings and needs. And there are parents who put their own comfort before their child\u2019s needs. Simple as that.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

What does it even mean for a child to be spoiled?<\/h2>\n

And why does this label get stuck on children whose parents are well off, or on children who express their emotions instead of suppressing them, right?<\/p>\n

My view is that the myth of spoiling was invented by the same parents who find it easier to have a good yell at their child and get rid of their pent-up frustration, by those who say \u201cwhat does she know, she\u2019s just a child\u201d and share similar views and behaviors, and by those who find it easier to punish their child for \u201cunacceptable behavior\u201d without asking themselves why the child behaved that way in the first place.<\/p>\n

In other words, those who are parents out of obligation, not by choice. Because yes, many people are parents simply because they brought a child into the world, but being a parent isn\u2019t just about a physical connection or existence. The role of a parent is much more complex and requires active engagement.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m a supporter of so-called \u201cgentle parenting\u201d.<\/p>\n

The point is to respect the child from day one as a person with specific needs and feelings, whom we as parents help to meet those needs or understand those feelings.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Culturally, appearance somehow matters more to us than substance<\/strong>; what matters is what others see and how they\u2019ll judge us. And this applies directly to children too.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s easier to have a child \u201cwho isn\u2019t spoiled\u201d and is quiet and obedient in every situation, no matter what that child really needs. What matters is how it looks to others. And whether that \u201cstate\u201d was reached through threats, punishment or, heaven forbid, beatings is less important.<\/p>\n

To me, it matters!<\/strong><\/p>\n

It matters more to me that my child can freely tell me she doesn\u2019t feel like going to a caf\u00e9 and would rather play with me at home, and that I don\u2019t have to \u201cdrag her along screaming and say: you\u2019re going because I said so\u201d.<\/p>\n

None of this means that Sofka knows no boundaries and does whatever she wants<\/strong>. Of course not. But we set boundaries by talking with her, calmly explaining why something isn\u2019t okay or why she can\u2019t do it<\/strong>. No yelling, no shouting, especially when she\u2019s expressing her emotions loudly.<\/p>\n

Because practice has shown that when we tell her something in a calm, composed way, it stays with her, while yelling and power struggles have never been fruitful so far.<\/p>\n

And a very important point here is that your child sees you as a source of support, not someone to be afraid of. That they understand that none of their behavior will change how you feel about them, but also why some behaviors aren\u2019t really desirable in the long run.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Does this mean Marko and I have never lost our patience or raised our voices at Sofka? Unfortunately not. But after outbursts like that, we both felt terrible, and on top of that, our behavior didn\u2019t change anything in hers.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we\u2019ve learned, in the moments when it matters, to put our own feelings and impulses aside, because it\u2019s not about us, it\u2019s about her.<\/strong> Because we don\u2019t want our behavior to send her the message \u201cyour behavior is unacceptable because I say so\u201d.<\/p>\n

Was it easy to reach that level of self-control? Of course not!<\/p>\n

But you learn as long as you live, and the best lessons come from your own mistakes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

One thing is certain: when someone tells Sofka she\u2019s spoiled, she answers \u201cno, I\u2019m loved\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you see the difference?<\/p>\n

Warmly,<\/p>\n

S-Mama<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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