{"id":6419,"date":"2024-08-11T18:50:46","date_gmt":"2024-08-11T16:50:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/smama.blog\/?p=6419"},"modified":"2026-09-12T10:39:37","modified_gmt":"2026-09-12T08:39:37","slug":"what-is-the-hardest-part-of-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/smama.blog\/en\/what-is-the-hardest-part-of-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"What is the hardest part of parenting?"},"content":{"rendered":"

A few days ago, I was talking with a friend about feminism, women’s roles in the business world, and family, and at one point, she asked me, “Please tell me, what is the hardest part of parenting?”
\nSince she doesn\u2019t have children herself, she asked me this question as an \u201cexpert\u201d in the field, eagerly awaiting my answer with a curious sparkle in her eyes.<\/p>\n

I had to pause for a moment and think because the question is not simple, and neither can the answer be trivial.<\/p>\n

For some reason, I wanted to give a true and honest answer, not some clich\u00e9 (like lack of sleep, breastfeeding, tantrums, starting kindergarten or school\u2026)
\nMaybe because I wanted to answer the question for myself more than for her.<\/p>\n

Pustiti. Let go. Loslassen.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

That is the hardest part. Oh. \"the<\/a><\/p>\n

For the second summer in a row, Sofia is spending her vacation in Serbia with her grandparents, without mom and dad. Yes, the whole summer, all six weeks of vacation.
\nThis year, she was so excited to go to her grandparents that the day before the trip, she eagerly said, \u201cIt feels like I have to wait another 100 days, not that I\u2019m leaving tomorrow.\u201d<\/p>\n

While we were putting together a puzzle on the floor of her room the evening before she left for Serbia, she asked me, \u201cMom, will you be sad because I won\u2019t be here for a long time?\u201d<\/p>\n

With a lump in my throat, I mustered the strength to smile gently and say:<\/p>\n

\u201cI won\u2019t be sad. I\u2019ll miss you a lot, every day and every moment, but I won\u2019t be sad. Why should I be sad when I know you\u2019ll have a wonderful vacation, and that\u2019s a reason to be happy, not sad.\u201d
\nHer face lit up instantly, she fell into my arms and said, \u201cI\u2019ll miss you a lot too, but I\u2019m sure I\u2019ll have a lot of fun.\u201d<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the whole point. To change your perspective<\/strong> and put your own needs, fears, insecurities, and worries aside and just be a support for a little being that is becoming more independent every day.<\/p>\n

And yes, it\u2019s hard to accept that you are no longer the center of her universe<\/strong>, and that she no longer says \u201cmom\u201d 300,000 times a day because she can do everything on her own.
\nLetting go.<\/p>\n

Giving her the freedom to be herself, to try things, to breathe, and to discover who she is \u201cwithout mom.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And of course, mom will always be there, when and if needed<\/strong>. To listen, support, hug, help\u2014whatever is needed. But mom doesn\u2019t have to control every situation, environment, or detail.
\nMom has to learn to let go. And that\u2019s hard, oh how hard it is.<\/p>\n

When is the right time to let go?<\/h2>\n

I don\u2019t know; it\u2019s very individual.
\nIt took me eight years of parenting and a lot of practice, a lot of biting my tongue and pulling the emergency brake. I failed a million times, but the million and first time was successful.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019d put it this way: it\u2019s never too early, but it can definitely be too late.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Just look around you, how many parents in your environment still haven\u2019t let go of their long-grown children, who are no longer children, many of whom have their own families.
\nBut mom has to know where you are and when you came home, even though you\u2019re over 30, because mom worries.
\nMom has to live in the same yard as you and your family, or even better, in the same house.
\nYou always have to answer the phone when mom calls.
\nMom has to read your messages on your phone and know every moment where you are and with whom.
\nBecause mom worries.<\/strong>
\nI have to disappoint you; this way, you\u2019re not showing trust in your children,<\/strong> but rather highlighting your own \u201csacrifice.\u201d And our children don\u2019t owe us anything.
\nThat\u2019s the fear of losing contro<\/strong>l or, even worse, of becoming less important, obsolete.
\nBecause if you have control and take on tasks, worries, and opportunities for your children, then they will always need you and will never be able to succeed in this or that without you.
\nThen you are always and forever important, irreplaceable.<\/p>\n

You will be important and irreplaceable even if you let go, if you give them the air to breathe and experience life on their own.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

You will always be their one and only mother, always there for them, but you don\u2019t have to be in front of them, in the spotlight.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be a few steps behind, in the shadows, not even to catch them if they fall, but to kiss the wounds so they heal faster if that\u2019s what they ask of you.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And no, that doesn\u2019t make you any less of a good mother<\/strong>. On the contrary.<\/p>\n

Let go.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s not easy, but it\u2019s necessary if we want our children to become strong, self-aware, and independent people, not mom\u2019s parasites.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I see it this way: my job as a parent is not finished<\/strong> because you\u2019re a parent from the moment the child is conceived until the end of your life; there\u2019s no phase where you stop being that. But my formative part of the job, laying the foundation and nurturing, has already been done. Now it\u2019s time to let go, to grow and develop into the wonderful person she has long since become.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Last year at seven, this year at eight, she\u2019s spending the summer with people who love her most after me and Marko. Before we know it, she\u2019ll be going on trips with friends, and the day after tomorrow, she\u2019ll be going to the beach with her boyfriend.
\nThere were no tears when she got on the train, neither from her nor from me.<\/p>\n

We don\u2019t talk a hundred times every day; in fact, days go by when we don\u2019t talk at all. I send a message every day as a little reminder that I\u2019m thinking of her and that I love her.
\nAnd when she feels the need to hear or see me, she calls me, and then we chat and laugh together. We share our experiences and impressions from the past days, or we recount the plot of the latest books or chapters we\u2019ve read. And I sleep peacefully when I see her smile in the photos or on video calls.<\/p>\n

Do I miss her?<\/p>\n

Yes.<\/p>\n

But I\u2019m also very proud when she tells me, \u201cOh mom, I don\u2019t have time to call you, I\u2019m doing so many things, and it\u2019s really fun.\u201d And that confirms that I\u2019m doing the right thing. For the first time since I became a mother, I don\u2019t feel guilty<\/a> about anything; I don\u2019t doubt my decisions, I don\u2019t think I\u2019m a bad mother<\/strong> because my child isn\u2019t clinging to my skirt, or because I feel good sleeping in on weekends or reading all day long, almost without a break.<\/p>\n

To me, that\u2019s a sign that I\u2019ve succeeded in letting go.<\/p>\n

Let go.<\/p>\n

Loslassen.<\/p>\n

Yes, you can too.<\/p>\n

Sincerely,<\/p>\n

S-Mama<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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